Innalilahi Wainnailaihi Rojiun (All human kind/species will die) (2)

Unfinished journey (159)

(Part one hundred and fifty-nine, Depok, West Java, Indonesia, 12:00 pm)

Agusno and Bambang Widodo when pilgrimage to the family cemetary of diran wiryotiyoso in Klaten, Surakarta, Central Java in 1983

 Innalilahi Wainnailaihi Rojiun (All human kind/species will die) (2)

 Graduated from State Primary School Nunmber One (1 ) in Kampung Baru (Village), Balikpapan, East Kalimantan our family father, mother and nine brothers and sisters January 3, 1973 moved from Balikpapan City to the city of Jakarta.

Fly Dakota plane airline Bouraq, taking less from the Sepinggan airport Balikpapan via the airport Ulin, Banjarmasin, South Kalimantan to refuel.

 Upon arrival at Jakarta Kemayoran Airport, we were picked Family Dumyati Lieutenant Captain (later retired rank of colonel), together with his wife and son Tony.

 We rented a car box, my mother in front of father and siblings sitting in the car inside the box, which brings us to the small cottage (Iin), Losmen Jaya I Jatinegara, East Jakarta. For three months in Jakarta we stayed at Inn Jaya I Jatinegara, just in front of the public Middle High secondary school (SMA) 62, after three months of our stay in the Inn, my father could buy a house worth Rp 400,000 in Dormitory Kobekdam V Jaya no. 52 just in front of the mosque Dormitory, rear Cililitan GOSiR Center (PGC). Family Dumyati own ride FIAT 125 Frog.

 Week I stayed at the inn Jaya I, I registered to the junior high school (SMP) 14 East Jakarta, opposite the Jatinegara market, opposite the theater first Kencana, Jatinegara Market

 I sat in class to the SMP 14 IF this, and I go in the afternoon, and in the classroom IF I one class with Firman Sastrawinata, a former business journalist Indonesia, is now working in PT Sukandajaya (supplier of ice cream diamonds), Mustafa Kamil Shahab, ophthalmologist Graduate school of Medicine, University of Padjadjaran, who became police, on duty at the hospital last Indonesian National Police (INP RS), including grade sister and older brother of Mustafa Kamil Shahab, K. Shahab also attend this school. K. Shahab who graduated from one of the University of Oregon, the United States is now the Tempo magazine journalist. Also one class Agus Suprayogi, a former employee of the Industrial Bank. Our favorite teacher when it is the Indonesian Teachers Syamsiar Manuar Mother, Mother of the most beautiful teacher in the school, but until age 30, when he was teaching a class I f I had never heard of her married. Men's favorite teacher was Mr. Joseph teaches English.

 At that time, the school year is divided into three semesters, so the distribution of school report cards are divided into three terms. The first semester I gained eight subjects with red figures, (under item 6), the second half fell to four, and the third semester in the class hike the average number of blue all my report cards (above the average figure 6), so I pass , up to class II.

 Figures red report cards (eight) this makes my father was concerned, so asked me to stop the extra-curricular activities.

 Imagine, every morning before going to school I always sports pim pong (Table tennis) in front of my house, because it was my father who bought pim pong table, until the children of my age no one can beat me when playing games pim pong . Afternoon, coming home from school I practice Badminton (Badminton) at the sports stadium teenager East Jakarta, every Saturday and Sunday afternoons I like to practice Karate Inkai Uranium Project in Cawang, East Jakarta.

 Graduated from SMP Negeri 14, I I am to be confused to continoe in Senior high school  or to the Secondary Technical School (STM), because almost all of most of my peers in the boarding school kobekdam choose STM, after graduating from junior high school, because of practical considerations , because when the labor market is in need of many graduates STM.

 Finally, my father enrolled me in school Technical High School (STM) Jaya I at Jalan Budi Utomo 4 Central Jakarta, majoring in Engineering.

 When the Minister of Education and Culture Prof. Daud Joesoef decided STM graduates should not directly go to college to college, before working for two years before, so had experience working two new first-year college allowed.

 Because this decision Joesoef Daud I hesitated, I finally solved '' piggy bank '' (savings) chicken-saving made of clay (clay), after I count them enough to pay the money goes high school (SMA) Panchasila II in Jatinegara , the same one building, when daylight is used for upper secondary school (high school) 62 countries in East Jakarta.

 So, if during my school in STM Jaya I, II Panchasila afternoon in high school.

 Fortunately, when I grade 3, there is a final exam schedule changes from the month of December to June, but specifically for STM this schedule is not delayed so in June, argued the labor market is in dire need of labor STM graduates immediately.

 Because the final exam is usually done in the morning, then this schedule change saved me, so that I could pass at once pocketed two diploma, STM Subject machine (Exam Passed in December), School of Social Sciences (pass the exam in June).

 One unique thing when we went to the STM is nearly 99 percent of the students were male. So if there is a school girl at the STM, we the men busy to protect this woman, it means there should not be any male students at the school are allowed to '' dating '' this woman.

 Differences with high school, let alone school afternoon / evening the majority of the students are employees / workers / laborers, so many are able to mate with a friend one class.

 Graduated from STM Jaya I, I was working at a car Subaru repair shop in the area sunter, Ancol, North Jakarta, usually this workshop employees ride a car pool from the field bus terminal, Lapangan Banteng in Central Jakarta.

 After three months I quit Workshop Subaru car, because I received so Servants in General (under lead CST Kansil , SH/Law school) in the Directorate General of Higher Education, Ministry of Education and Culture. At the time of the employment contract signed by the Minister of Education of my country and Culture Dr.Doed Joesoef. Meanwhile, the Director General of Higher Education when it held Prof.Dr.Doddy Tisna Amidjaja, which when it doubles as Rector Institute of Technology Bandung (ITB). Doddy Tisna finished last Amidjaja as Indonesian Ambassador to France in Paris.

 Working in the public part of this indeed physically strenuous, because my job is typists, among others, typing the manuscript and print books (multiply) the books that will be distributed to various universities throughout Indonesia, from Jaya Pura, Papua, Ambon, Maluku, to Banda Aceh, Aceh.

 I next worked as a civil servant, afternoon / evening I continue studying at the National University, the campus in Imam Bonjol / Salemba central Jakarta.

 After three years as a civil servant, I resigned, because going to college (three years of college credit transfer in UNAS) at California State University, Fresno, United States, Department of Economics. (1982-1983)

 Return to Indonesia I work so Corrector Tempo Magazine, and the Zaman Magazine., In addition to completion of back S1 (Undergraduated) and S2 (Master) at the National University Department of American Studies (KWA) University of Indonesia (UI) Salemba, Central Jakarta.

 Tempo magazine that is still headquartered in Senen Project was editor in chief Gunawan Moehammad, his editor  among others Bambang Bujono, Syubah Asa, Yusril Djalinus, reporters Bambang Harymurti and Praginanto, Dyah Purnomowati, and Zaim Uchrowi.

Zaman magazine when it managed Putu Widjaja, Danarto and Mrs. Kun. Later Bambang Bujono so my boss so the Chief Editor of Weekly News D & R. and Mrs. Kun so my boss at the Coastal Project Bogor Agricultural University (IPB). These projects help the United States AID, which managed the University of Rhode Islands, USA.

 After so corrector Tempo magazine I then for 30 years become a journalists in various media, from the start in the Antara News Agency (ANTARA), Magazine of Economic Prospects, Media Indonesia daily, The News Magazines D & R, Radio Singapore International (RSI), English-language daily The Point , Economic Weekly magazine Business Week (Indonesian edition), Beijing Oristar Media, and Online Media Asatunews last. Now the pain of kidney failure due to diabetes, dialysis at the hospital Dr. esnawan antariksa.

 Wednesday, December 10th 2014 yesterday I dialysis beginning of the third month in a hospital esnawan , air force in the region belonging to Indonesian Air Force at area the airport Halim Perdanakusumah, East Jakarta.

 One of my first hour of dialysis afternoon around 14:00 pm I was startled by the sound of crying in unison in the next bed over my head.

 a young mother (35 years) had died while in the process of dialysis. Husband, parents and relatives who accompany each cry soundly (hard) after the doctor came to make sure that this mother had died. Innalilahi Wainnailairojiun (every animate creature will die).

 I experienced a deep sadness because there is a family died while still in grade 4 elementary school age 1 Kampung Baru country Central, Balikpapan in 1969 and then, when it Julak (Pade/uncle) Nambut brother (sister) oldest male my mother died in my father's house in the village The new center Balikpapan, julak Nambut buried in a common grave independent land new village end, Balikpapan.

 Both my grandmother Inah (80 years) died in my house at Jalan Merdeka alley gang gebras, coincidence of ten siblings who live with only my grandmother in the alley gebras, Pasar Rebo.

 Then my father Agusno (71 years) died in 2004, I did not get to come to bury the body of my father, because it can not bench (seat) Ambon-Jakarta flight. When it's me again duty in Ambon, Maluku as the New Zealand Aid Communication specialist

who managed Bina Organization for post-Christian-Muslim ethnic conflict.

 I also witnessed the death of my mother's sister child acil (sister of my mother) misah, Cholik (17 years) who died due to electric shock, due to the correct power cable with bare chest, grabbed her bare wires chest so that he died instantly. My body was in the public cemetery between Mount Shoot, Balikpapan, this happened when I was on duty so the Branch Manager Insurance company of PT Asuransi Tugu Mandiri in my home town of Balikpapan.

 Recently I witnessed no family died in 2006, my brother number 5 (Bambang Widodo), which I myself waiting at the hospital Pasar Rebo few days he has been comatose in the hospital, after several years of suffering from lung cancer (due to he is strong smoke).

 My  mother in law (siti masyam, 80 years) died only accompanied by my wife, and his family in the hospital islam, white cempaka, North Jakarta, 2011, my own when it was only in-laws house, Kemayoran, Cempaka Putih, because new just had a stroke. I'm still strong prayer (menyolatkan), and my in-law's body was delivered to the funeral Sentiong, Central Jakarta. My man Captain Dimyati-law died in the city of Mecca, Saudi Arabia when he was Hajj

 May God still give sustenance to me so I could watch my beloved grandson both Keisha and Alisa Nindra so I can see directly children grow up healthy and beautiful, intelligent and salehah (always rememberance to God Almighty).