Unfinished journey (194)
(Part one hundred
and ninety-four, Depok, West Java, Indonesia, January 26, 2015, 19:33 pm)
Renal Failure:
itching all over the body become routine work
One of the effects
of the disease are suffering from kidney failure and is now undergoing hemo
dialysis (dialysis) was itching all over the body.
If according to
the story of the center hemo dialysis patients in the hospital Esnawan
Space-owned Indonesian Air Force (Air Force) at Halim Perdana Kusuma, East
Jakarta, almost all of them experience itching all over the body.
The doctor said
the disease, itching that occurs in the body of patients with kidney failure
due to high blood urium inside.
Many patients
berserita eat legumes such as tempeh and tofu causes itchy body, some say we
eat fruit in addition to papaya, and many other stories.
Said a medical
expert says hell no itch reliever that, kacuali hemo dialysis. HD is already
the love doctor prescribe medication to relieve itching, but still felt the
itch remains.
'' later if I die,
my son certainly surprised in my bathing the corpse, because I damaged my body
scratching continues for six years I hemo dialysis (HD), said Mr. Tio (61
years) (which is known to be called Mr. Cecelia, retired Colonel Air Force,
told me.
'' Enjoy it
itches, so there it is indeed this so our food every day, '' said Mr. Fauzi,
while showing full body and head wounds caused by carded continues every day.
Mr. Yusuf Effendi,
(71 years) retired Technical Secondary School Teachers (STM) in North Jakarta
are also experiencing the same thing. Until all over her legs discharge from
wounds carded.
Fluid that comes
out from his legs swollen, because Mr. Joseph too often drink. Though the
drinking renal failure is limited, if excessive drinking will only accumulate
in the body, including legs, because the kidneys are no longer able to process
the incoming water.
Healthy people
usually when drinking a lot will come out again through the urine. People renal
failure rather difficult to remove through the urine, even there pesien HD are
already six years never again passing urine (urine).
So to remove fluid
and toxins in your body forced only through HD (Hemo Dialysis).
In addition to itching,
the first year, usually withered HD patients, it is difficult to walk normally,
except for using a cane, or wheelchair.
Even Mr. Tio
berceita, the first three years he was hospitalized for Dialysis come with a
stretcher (carried wear a gurney) now after six years, he even came to dialysis
to drive the vehicle alone, without his wife.
'' My wife let
ngurus grandchildren at home, '' the story of Mr. Tio.
At the hospital
Space Esnawan one shift each day an average of about 50 people on dialysis, there
are three shifts, morning shift, afternoon and evening (night).
Patients longest
HD already 20 years in this hospital is a mother retired State Department,
Second Mr. Supri, recently retired from the army in the Air Force has been on
dialysis for 17 years.
The oldest patient
81 year old grandfather Jonggol origin, West Java, the youngest a 23-year-old
woman who recently graduated S1nya, college while dialysis.
Mr. Yusuf Efendi
(71 years old) have one year of dialysis. So dialysis has been synonymous with
itching, if we want any scraping together with reducing (grind) sins then do
not forget to four hours of dialysis is filled with remembrance, exalt, tahmid
after prayer and of course done with constancy and patience
Patience According
to the Qur'an and Hadith
"Within us is
sometimes so hard to be patient for something, whether it is affected or being
tested by him, many verses of the Qur'an and the Hadith of the Prophet Muhammad
that describes patient, here there is little description of meaning patient,
hopefully this article can increase our patience and helpful to us all. Aamiin
... "
From Suhaib ra,
that the Prophet SAW said, "It is amazing its case believer, for all his
affairs are good for him. And the thing that should not be there but only on
the believers: That if he gain happiness, he was grateful, because (he knows)
that it is the best for him. And if he was stricken, he was patient, because
(he knows) that it is the best thing for him. "(HR. Muslim)
Brief of Hadith
This hadith is a
hadeeth with isnaad as above, through Abdurrahman ibn Abi Thabit from Laila,
from Suhaib of the Prophet, narrated by:
- Imam Muslim in
his Saheeh, Kitab al-Zuhud wa Al-Raqa'iq, Bab Al-Mu'min Amruhu Kulluhu Khair,
Hadith No. 2999.
- Imam Ahmad bin
Hanbal in his Musnad in four places, namely Hadith No. 18 455, 18 360, 23 406
and 23 412.
- Also narrated by
Imam al-Darimi, in Sunannya, Kitab al-Riqaq, Bab Al-Mu'min Yu'jaru Fi kulli
Syai ', Hadith No. 2777.
Meaning Hadith
General
This brief hadith
has a broad meaning as well as providing a definition of the nature and
character of those who believe. Every believer is described by the Prophet
Muhammad as a person who has the charm, which is described by the term 'ajaban'
(عجبا). Due to the nature and character will dazzle anyone.
Then the Prophet
illustrates that the charm stems from the existence of positive thinking every
believer. Where he looked at the problem from the standpoint of all positive,
and not from the point of nagatifnya.
For example, when
he was getting kindness, happiness, happiness, pleasure, and so forth, it will
be reflected in the form of penysukuran against Allah. Because he knows and
understand that it is a gift of God which is given to him. And God does not
give him something, but certainly something that is positive for him.
Conversely, if he
gets a calamity, disaster, grief, sadness, misfortune and other negative
things, he will be patient. Because he believes that it is a gift for her at
the same ordeal that definitely has a secret goodness in it. So the reflection
is to be patient and give it all to God.
urgency Patience
Patience is one of
the fundamental characteristics of pious to Allah SWT. In fact, some scholars
say that patience is half of faith. Patience has links that may not be
separated from faith: Linkages between patience with faith, is like the head
with his body. There is no faith that is not accompanied by patience, as well
as no bodies that do not have a head. Hence the Prophet describes the
characteristics and virtues of the believers as the hadith above.
But patience is
not solely have a sense of "nrimo", incompetence and synonymous with
oppression. Patience actually have dimensions on pengalahan lust contained in
the human soul. In jihad, patiently implemented with salallaahu who wants him
to sit with a relaxed and quiet at home. It's when he was silent that, in fact
he has not been able to be patient against the challenges and fulfill the
divine call.
Patient also has a
dimension to change a condition, both personal and social, to the improvement
in order to better and better. Even a person can be said to be impatient to
say, if he receives bad conditions, surrender and give up. Patience in worship
is implemented in the form of combat and force yourself to get up from the bed,
and then perform ablution and then walked to the mosque and pray in congregation
acted upon. So that the patient is not appropriate if only interpreted by a
passive nature, but he has a balance between the value of the active nature of
the passive nature.
meaning of
Tolerance
Patience is a term
derived from the Arabic, and has become a term in Indonesian. Originally he is
"Shobaro", which form the infinitive (masdar) becomes
"shabran". In terms of language, meaning restrain and prevent the
patient. This amplifies the meaning as the word of God in the Qur'an:
Restrain thyself
along with those who call on their Lord morning and evening, seeking His
Countenance; and do not turn your eyes from them (as), desiring the life of
this world; and obey not him whose heart We have neglected of Our remembrance
and who follows his own lusts and is the situation that crossed the line. (QS.
Al-Kahf / 18: 28)
Command to be
patient in the paragraph above, is to refrain from desire 'out' of the
community of people who call her Rab and always seeking His Countenance.
Patient orders above as well as the prevention of human desires that want to be
with people who are heedless of remembering Allah.
In terms of the
term, patient is:
Refrain from the
nature of anxiety and a sense of emotion, then hold oral complaints and arrest
members of the body of the act which is not directional.
Amru bin Usman
said, that the patient is the firmness with God, receiving his examination of
the roomy and quiet. The same thing was also stated by Imam al-Khowas, that
patience is a reflection of the determination to realize the Qur'an and Sunnah.
So that the patient actually not synonymous with resignation and inability. It
is precisely this kind of people who have indicated their impatience to change
the existing conditions, impatience for trying, impatience to fight and so
forth.
Prophet Muhammad
ordered his followers to be patient when jihad. Whereas jihad is fighting the
enemies of Allah, the climax is the use of weapons (war). That is to act as the
necessary patience to waive keiinginan soul who wants a sense of relaxed, lazy,
and so forth. Patient in jihad also means the determination to confront the
enemy, and not run away from the battlefield. People who fled from the
battlefield because of fear, is one indication impatient.
Patience As
Described In The Qur'an
In the Qur'an many
verses that talk about patience. If traced as a whole, there are 103 times
referred to in the Qur'an, the words that use the word patient basis; well
shaped and fi'ilnya isim. This shows how much patience to the attention of
Allah, the God emphasize to His servants. Of verses exist, the scholars
classify the patient in the Qur'an into some sort;
1. Patience is the
order of Allah. It is as found in QS.2: 153: "O ye who believe, ask for
help to God with patience and prayer, Allah is with those who patiently."
Other verses
similar to the command of the patient is very much present in the Qur'an. Among
them are the QS.3: 200, 16: 127, 8: 46, 10: 109, 11: 115 jobs.
2. Prohibition
isti'ja l (haste / impatient), as Allah says (QS. Al-Ahqaf / 46: 35): "So
be patient as people who have the courage of the apostles and do not you asked
for expedited (doom) for them ... "
3. Praise God for
those who are patient, as contained in the QS. 2: 177: "... and those who
are patient in adversity, suffering and in war. They are the ones who really
faith and they are the ones who fear Him."
4. Allah will love
those who wait. Aal Imran (3: 146) Allah says: "And Allah loves those who
are patient."
5. Mutual Allah
with those who are patient. This means that God always will be with His
servants who wait. Allah says (QS. 8: 46); "And be patient, for verily
Allah is with those who patiently."
6. Getting the
reward of heaven from God. Allah says in the Qur'an (13: 23-24); "(It is)
heaven 'Eden which they enter into it together with those of the pious fathers,
wives and grandchildren, are angels enter their places of all doors; (while
saying ): "Salamun` alaykum Milky shabartum "(salvation for you, for
the patience that you do). So it is good to place the end of it."
This is among the
Qur'anic description of patience. Gembaran other representations regarding the
same, there are still very many, and can be found in the books that
specifically discuss about patience.
Patience As
Described In the Hadith.
As in the Qur'an,
the hadith is also a lot of sayings of the Prophet Muhammad that describes
about patience. In the book The Gardens of the Righteous, Imam Nawawi 29 hadith
include themed patient. Broadly speaking, these hadiths describe patience as
follows;
1. Patience is
"Dhiya '" (very bright light). Due to this patient, someone will be
able to unveil the darkness. Prophet Muhammad said, "... and patience is a
bright light ..." (HR. Muslim)
2. Patience is
something that needs to be cultivated and trained optimally. Prophet Muhammad
once described: "... whoever mensabar self-sabarkan (try to be patient),
then God will make a patient ..." (HR. Bukhari)
3. Patience is a
gift of God most good. Prophet Muhammad said, "... and it is not a person
is given something better and more spacious than patience." (Agreed Alaih)
4. Patience is one
of the characteristic properties of the believers at the same time, as the
hadith found in muqadimah; "It's amazing the case of people who believe,
for all its case is good. If he gets the pleasure, he was grateful because (he
mengatahui) that it is indeed good for him. And if he is stricken or hardship,
he perseveres because (he knows) that it is good for him. "(HR. Muslim)
5. A person who is
patient will get the reward of heaven. In a hadith described; From Anas bin
Malik said, that I heard the Prophet SAW said, He says, "When I test my
servant with his eyes, then her patient, then I replace heaven for him." (HR.
Bukhari)
6. Patience is the
nature of the prophets. Ibn Mas'ud in a history once said: From Abdullah bin
Mas'ud said, "As if I looked at the Prophet tells one of the prophets, who
was beaten by his people to bleed, later he wiped the blood from his face and
said, 'O Allah forgive sin of my people, because they do not know. "(HR.
Bukhari)
7. Patience is
characteristic of a strong man. Prophet Muhammad once described in a hadith;
From Abu Hurairah ra said, that the Prophet SAW said, "The strong is not
that good at wrestling, but the strong is the one who has the soul when
angry." (HR. Bukhari)
8. Patience can
take away sins. Depicting the Prophet Muhammad in a hadith; From Abu Hurairah
ra that Rasulullan SAW said, "It is not a Muslim get fatigue, pain,
anxiety, sadness, danger and distress, until the thorns that pierced him, but
God will blot out their sins with it." (HR. Bukhari & Muslim)
9. Patience is a
must, which one can not despair until he wants death. Had it been so compelled
to let him pray to God, that God will give you the best thing for him; whether
life or death. Prophet said; From Anas bin Malik, that the Prophet SAW said,
"Let one of you recall the arrival of death due to calamities that befall
him. And if she had indeed to expect it, let him pray, 'O Allah, keep my life
if only life was better unttukku. And wafatkanlah me, if only it was better for
me. "(HR. Bukhari Muslim)
Forms of Patience
The scholars
divided the patience to three things; patient in obedience to God, wait to leave
and wait for exams disobedience of God:
1. Patience in
obedience to God. Realization of obedience to God, requires patience, because
in his nature, the human soul is reluctant to worship and do obedience. Judging
from the cause, there are three things that cause human difficult to be
patient. Firstly because lazy, as in doing worship. Both as hunks (miser), such
as alms giving and infaq. Thirdly because both, (lazy and stingy), like Hajj
and jihad.
Then to be able to
realize patience in obedience to God needed a few things,
(1) In the
condition before performing worship in the form fix intentions, namely
kikhlasan. Ikhlas is patience in the face thorns riya '.
(2) The condition
when conducting worship, so as not to forget God in the midst of implementing
the worship, not lazy in realizing manners and sunna-sunahnya.
(3) The condition
when it has completed the prayer, which is to not talk about worship that has
been done so that the other person is known or praised.
2. Patient in left
disobedience. Leaving disobedience also requires great patience, especially in
disobedience which is very easy to do, such as backbiting (read; huddle), lie,
looking at something forbidden etc. Because of the tendency of human life, like
the things that are bad and "fun". And immoral acts identical to the
things that "fun".
3. Patience in
dealing with the trials and tribulations of God, such as getting a disaster,
either material or inmateri; for example, loss of property, loss of loved ones
and so on.
Aspects of
Patience as Described in the Hadith
In the hadiths of
the Prophet, there are some traditions that describe specific aspects or
conditions seseroang required to be patient. Although these aspects are not a
'restriction' in the fields of patience, but only as examples and emphasis that
has a value of motivation to be more patient in dealing with a variety of other
problems. Among the conditions which emphasized that our patient is:
1. Tolerance
towards disaster.
Patient with an
unfortunate aspect of patience is most often advised many people. Because the
patient in this aspect is a form of patient's In a hadith narrated,:
From Anas bin
Malik, that once the Prophet passed by a woman who was crying near a cemetery.
Then the Prophet said, 'But fear Allah, and be patient. "The woman
replied,' Get away from me, because actually you do not know and can not feel
the tragedy that happened to me. 'Then notified to the woman, that people who
had admonished him is the Prophet . Then he went to the door of the Prophet and
he did not get his guards. Then he said to the Prophet, '(sorry) I was not
aware you, O Prophet.' The Prophet said, 'Truly patient was found on the first
beat. "(HR. Bukhari Muslim)
2. Be patient when
facing the enemy (in jihad).
In a narration,
the Prophet said: From Abu Hurairah ra said, that the Prophet SAW said, 'Do you
daydream to face the enemy. But if you had to deal with the patient (to deal).
"HR. Muslims.
3. Patient
congregation, to amir unwelcome.
In an illustrated
history; From Ibn Abbas narrated that the Prophet, he said, 'Those who saw the
amir (leader) something he did not like, then let him be patient. Because
anyone who separates himself from the congregation of the span, then he died.
Then he dies in a state of ignorance death. (HR. Muslim)
4. Tolerance to
the office and position.
In an illustrated
history: From Usaid bin Hudhair that one of the Ansar said to the Prophet
Muhammad; 'O Messenger of Allah, thou lift (given position) the so and so, but
did not raise (to give the position to me). Rasulullah SAW said, Surely you
will look after me 'atsaratan' (ie everyone is considered better than the
other), so bear with you until you meet me at telagaku (later). (HR. Turmudzi).
5. Tolerance in
social life and interaction with the community.
In a hadith
narrated, the Prophet SAW said, "A Muslim when he interacts with the
public and patient against the negative impact they are better than a Muslim
who does not interact with the community and not be patient over their negativity.
(HR. Turmudzi)
6. Patience in the
rigors of life and economic pressure
In an illustrated
history; 'From Abdullah ibn Umar said that the Prophet once said, "Those
who endure the difficulties and the crush of his life, then I would be
witnesses or intercessors for him on the Day of Judgment. (HR. Turmudzi).
Tips To Increase
Patience
Impatience (read:
being isti'jal) is a liver disease, which should be anticipated and treated
early. Because it has an negative impact of a human deeds done. As the results
are not optimal, fall into disobedience, reluctant to perform worship to God
etc. Therefore, it takes a few tips, in order to increase patience. Among these
tips are;
1. Mengkikhlaskan
intention to God, that he was merely doing just for him. With the intention of
this kind, will support the emergence of patience to God.
2. Increase the
recitations (read; reading) of the Qur'an, either in the morning, afternoon,
evening or night. Will be optimized again when the reading is accompanied by
reflection and pentadaburan meanings it contains. Since the Qur'an is a cure
for the human heart. Also included in this category dhikr to God.
3. Increase the
sunnah fasting. Because fasting is to reduce the passions that are syahwati
especially with the opposite sex. Fasting is also a worship that is
specifically able to exercise patience.
4. Mujahadatun
nafs, which is an effort made for the human being and the maximum vigorously
trying to beat the soul desires that tend to like the negative things, such as
lazy, angry, greedy, etc.
5. Looking back
life's purpose in the world. Because this will spur beings to be perfect
charity. While impatience (being isti'jal), has a large enough percentage to
make one's practice is not optimal. Especially if contemplating that God will
see "deeds" someone who does, and not look at the results. (See QS.
9: 105)
6. Need to conduct
exercises to patient personally. Like when you're alone in the house, let
trained for charity worship of the watch television for example. Then train
yourself to set aside part of sustenance for infaq fi sabilillah, etc.
7. Read-read
stories patience companions, tabi'in and other Islamic leaders. Because it will
also instill exemplary exemplary in real life in the world.
cover
Here's a little
sketch about patience. In essence, that the patient mereupakan one of the nature
and character of the believers, the true nature can be possessed by every human
being. Because, basically, humans have the potential to develop a patient's
attitude in life.
Patience is not
synonymous with submission and surrender to the existing conditions, or
identical with keterdzoliman. Precisely patient is an active attitude, to
change the existing conditions, so it can be better and better. Therefore, let
us strive together to reach this attitude. Insha Allah, God will provide a way
for His servants who sought in his path.
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